There are four types of individuals and mostly personalities can easily be understood via these traits they hold. As a parent to the boy, wife and friend to the male species, it would be easier to understand them if you had a map or something close to that description sticker that comes with every commodity. I find it my business to help you understand your male spouse, male leader, male mentor, son or father (although the same traits can be same to the female species).
Melancholic. They tend to keep to details, loyal to their duties and the kind that does what is required and rarely will you have an issue with them. They easily express themselves to other and in multitude simply because they tend to prepare themselves before the speech and draft for orderly speech delivery and always feel the need to be accurate/perfectionist. They are mostly introverted which simply means deep in thoughts and rarely confident. Depression easily catches up leading to depression. More
Sanguine. Positive or optimistic especially in bad to difficult situations. They find it easy to express themselves, Extroverts, but not easily trustworthy because of being too open and are dependent on company due to the fact to being outspoken and always getting into other people conversations uninvited. More
Phlegmatic. Serious and modest. Scandals or wrong doing is not in any part of their vocabulary for they avoid disputes which also makes them heavy thinkers before any decision is made. Unlike sanguine they adapt slowly to new surroundings and conditions in relation to friendship too. Most of them are introverts and are also reliable hence making awesome friends. They need constant reminders of their capabilities since they might tend to undermine themselves. More
Choleric. You remember that guy who is always bad tempered or always grumpy or should I use my former lectures special world *cantankerous*, high chances are he can be identified as choleric and sadly most men are under this group. They are mostly money minded, poetry and works of art. They make thriving individuals since they invest in themselves and most find work as fun. They make goals and strive to achieve them, fixate on one thing and rarely note other issues affecting them unnoticed. Something to note about them, they are logical and come out rude since they are straightforward and rarely have time to repeat what seems as the obvious. More
With these few pointers and links to more in respect to the authors who own the copyright and special thanks to their capabilities and skills, now you know your opposites ladies and should take it upon yourself to learn on how to treat them in regards to what you might term as short comings ad strengths. Never compare be it a boy or a man but embrace their diversity.
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